Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community.
Not having expectations, as others mentioned, is also key to reducing feelings of frustration. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have.
Stopped answering texts and calls, refused to give me my belongings that he moved up to the new place, and not to mention he broke up with me over the phone after all of those years. My First and only Blind Date in Japan.